放得低

十二月 21st, 2008 · 79 Comments

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朋友的男友跟她說:「妳若覺得玩厭了就走,不要勉強。」
朋友聽到後大感不悅,男友深明[她是會容易厭倦感情的人,所以才會如此說,但她也恨男友為何可以這樣灑脫地說這番話。

作為朋友,表面上一定要表示同情,但某程度上我十分佩服友人的男友這樣看得開。這也令我有一個疑問:
既然很多東西都留不得,是否把所有東西都放得低就一定令自己舒服?

這無疑是個不錯的大道理,可是在一切都沒有事時就拋出這道理,對自己的人生是悲觀之餘,也令身邊人感到被看輕。就像是個沒道行的預言家,一切都靠猜測卻又信以為真,最後的結果只是自己營造出來,並不是甚麼自然。

最慘是身邊的人看著你一步一步把自己逼進死胡同,還要說這一切是緣份,更要眼看你把自己審視成世外高人,把一切變幻看作浮雲,都不知好氣還是好笑。

不是性別歧視,自以為世外高人的,通常都是男人。

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  • 1 // 12月 26, 2008 at 下午11時50分

    既然很多東西都留不得,是否把所有東西都放得低就一定令自己舒服? just a general statement

  • 2 NIKI YUEN // 12月 28, 2009 at 下午3時40分

    我都好認同你既睇法….放生人等於放生自己!
    我前幾個月都受到愛情既傷害,,,即使旁人點安慰都好啦…最終都只係靠自己!!有一句我好認同同有感既係”最慘是身邊的人看著你一步一步把自己逼進死胡同,還要說這一切是緣份,更要眼看你把自己審視成世外高人,把一切變幻看作浮雲,都不知好氣還是好笑。”
    同時我都因為”既然很多東西都留不得,是否把所有東西都放得低就一定令自己舒服”…所以先學識放手同放低….既然呢個男人唔懂得珍惜自己既,,,,點解仲要愛呢個人呢..?!?我深信自己將來一定可以搵個更好~~

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